even in loss, you are still held 

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support and Respite care

I am deeply sorry that life has brought you here - in need of a site like this. I wish you didn’t have to be here, but I am glad you are. Whether you are carrying the weight of a recent pregnancy or infant loss, or supporting someone you love, know this: there is no grief like this grief, and you are not alone.

Still Held is a gentle space for those navigating the grief of pregnancy loss, miscarriage, or infant loss.

Whether your loss was recent or many years ago, you belong here. We offer space to breathe, to remember, and to find quiet connection with others who understand.Through retreats, community connection, and a growing number of healing spaces, Still Held exists to remind you that your story matters.

retreats

We believe that in-person connection is sacred. There’s nothing quite like being in the same space with other loss moms — women who truly get it. At our retreats, you’re invited to rest, grieve, and breathe alongside others who have walked this road too. It’s a time to pause, connect, and be reminded that you are not alone.

still held offerings:

diverse women who have experienced infant loss , pregnancy loss miscarriage stillborn stillbirth grief attending an ontario retreat together
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A respite space

After loss, sometimes you just need a change of scenery — a place that doesn’t hold all the hard memories. Our respite space was created for that. It’s a quiet place to come and rest, to honor an anniversary, mark a moment, or simply breathe again. Whether you come alone or with your partner, this space offers gentle rest and renewal for your heart.

a respite suite to get away for women and couples who have lost a baby to miscarriage, still birth , infant loss , SIDS, grieving parents who need a retreat space in their grief
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an online community

Even from afar, you don’t have to walk this road alone. Our online community is a safe, nurturing space where you can feel seen, heard, and held. It’s a place to connect with others who understand, to share your story, and to grow together through learning, conversation, and care.

online support for women who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss miscarriage stillbirth stillborn and need grief community and connection
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 I’m so sorry this is apart of your story - but you’re not alone in it.   

 1 in 6 couples experience infertility    

1 in 4
pregnancies end in miscarriage

1 in 160
babies are stillborn

1 in 100
women experience recurrent pregnancy loss

infant and pregnancy loss grief and PAIL support

There are countless women and families who know this heartbreak firsthand. Still, the world speaks of miscarriage and infant loss in hushed tones, cloaked in discomfort and quiet expectation — as if grief should be hidden, and healing should hurry. But not here. This is a space where we will speak freely about loss, grief and our beautiful babies.